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The concept of dating and marriage is totally wrong when it comes to God's expectations of how it should be facilitated or managed. The world has abandoned biblical principles for what God deems as lawful marriage, to handle things in ways that feel right to man. Proverbs 14:12 states, "There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death." People go about dating and marriage the wrong way, thinking it's the right way to do things. This human way of doing things often ends with bad results, but humanity still insists on performing courtship the worldly way. The origin of this way is satanic in nature and can be traced back to the ancient lie told to Adam and Eve in the Garden Of Eden. This was the lie representing good and evil. Genesis 2:17 describes how God commanded them not to eat the tree of good and evil. This tree represents knowledge being good, but can also be used for evil. God didn't want man exposed to unnecessary information that could hinder their eternity. God only wants man to live by the knowledge that proceeds out of his mouth. Matthew 4:4 confirms this. Genesis 3:5 describes Satan the serpent selling Eve on the benefits of possessing forbidden knowledge. What is this forbidden knowledge you may ask? First, you must understand Satan's deception hidden within the truth. Knowledge of evil may oppose God's word, but it may still yield certain benefits temporarily to fleshly matters. In the end, it leads to death but doesn't necessarily kill one instantly in the physical. Genesis 2:17 explains God informing Adam and Eve of the consequences of utilizing evil knowledge to add temporal benefit to one's physical life. God wasn't saying they would die instantly, but was inferring they would be destined to suffer eternal spiritual death at the time of judgment. There are two ways to handle life problems, with good knowledge or evil. Both may work, but only one comes with no negative side effects. God-given knowledge is considered a blessing and according to Proverbs 10:22, that same knowledge addeth no sorrows. Evil knowledge given by Satan can be camouflaged as blessings because it may seem to get the job done quicker but doesn't mean it was the right choice to make. This knowledge curses the user because it's considered an act of disobedience to God. This is due to forbidden knowledge going against God's original instruction for how humanity should govern itself. Just because it works, doesn't mean it's God ordained. In the end, evil knowledge never works out for the user, it always leaves its victims in a worse state than they were initially. People flock to evil knowledge for worldly answers because they tend to lead to quicker resolutions. People are not willing to trust the process and do things God's way due to it not fitting their time frame. When humanity forsakes God's instruction in search of Satan's, they invite curses into their lives. It may seem like you're getting ahead, but it's really a curse camouflaged as a blessing. Satan gives no free gifts. Satan provides his solutions to humanity with the intent to lead them to destruction. According to Proverbs 10:22, God provides holy solutions, that add no sorrow. Anything Satan helps one obtain will soon be accompanied by sorrow. It has been known, that fast money obtained through devious means will not last. People know this but still roll the dice with their freedom. Due to a lack of faith and patience in doing things with integrity, victims fall prey to looking for shortcuts. Just because it takes longer, doesn't mean it isn't worth doing things the right way. According to 1 Corinthians 15:58, things done God's way will last. By default, this scripture also informs us that whatever is done in Satan's way will not last. People should understand, that you don't have to go to Satan directly, to receive his help. You can obtain worldly solutions from Satan via his representatives. Whether they agree or not, worldly people are satanic ambassadors, due to their forsaking the laws of God. According to John 8:44-45, worldly people do the will of their father, Satan. This means when you accept help from Satanic representatives, you indirectly make contracts with Satan. According to Amos 3:3, to sin is to come into agreement with Satan. According to Psalm 1:1, those who walk in Satan's council choose to be cursed. Anything cursed will be drowned in an ocean of misfortune.
People often get dating and marriage advice from these sources:
Worldly Social Media Dating Pages:
Worldly Social Media Dating Advice Channels:
Worldly Friends and Strangers
Horoscopes
Worldly Movies
Worldly Music
Worldly Hollywood Celebrities
Worldly Dating Advice Books
Worldly Dating Coaches
Fortune Tellers
Advice given by these venues listed above may contain information that does make sense, but it ultimately goes against what the word of God stands for in the grand scheme of things. It's Satan's deception to mix truth with carnality. This is how the serpent deceived Adam and Eve in the book of Genesis. The Bible never documented any issues with Adam and Eve's relationship until the fruit was eaten in Genesis 3:6-12. Notice after they listened to the serpent, their eyes became open to carnal things. It stated in the text they saw each other naked. When we allow Satan to open our eyes through evil knowledge, it makes one's flesh aware of flaws in our partner and the relationship as a whole. Once satisfied with your partner, now they're no longer good enough. According to Galatians 5:16, those who depend on God's spiritual knowledge to guide their relationships, will not fulfill the lust of what the flesh deems more satisfying versus what God deems more fulfilling for a couple's spiritual well-being. Satan teaches you to look for physical flaws in your current relationship and seek out the best person who can satisfy you more physically. Proverbs 27:20 describes how the eyes of humanity are never satisfied. This is due to lust of the flesh. Satan knows the flesh always wants better than what it has. The flesh is never satisfied. No matter how many good things a person does right, they will never be enough for a carnal partner who walks according to their flesh. Satan spread his philosophy of high value vs low value through his Satanic ambassadors. Now one's fleshly appearance must go through a scale of 1-10 before they're even considered valuable in everyday society. This is satanic programming. Satan has conditioned the masses to choose their mate based on what's best for their flesh, instead of what's best for their spiritual health, according to God's word. Proverbs 27:20 confirms us as being fearfully and wonderfully made. According to Genesis 2:25, when we look at our partners through God's word, we will remain content with what God has given us. There will be no shame between each other. This is why loyalty in relationships has become taboo. Too many people are engaged in union with worldly people who allow their flesh to guide their moral decisions.
This leads to the following negative side effects in relationships:
Cheating/ having side partners
divorce
STD's
Children conceived outside of marriage.
Same-sex relationships
Polygamous relationships
Wife pregnant with another man's child
The husband has impregnated another woman with a child.
Single mothers
Infidelity wouldn't be this rampant if people would learn to go about dating God's way. God encourages no sex outside of marriage, but people don't listen and become plagued with STDs, then come home and give it to their partners. Children are born out of lust and end up being neglected by parents due to them being a byproduct of sexual promiscuity. These same children then grow up under a curse of illegitimacy and often suffer rejection in life. People forsake the original design for God-ordained relationships and engage with the same sex. This violates God's law because you can't be fruitful and multiply entertaining same-sex relationships. God only ordained a relationship between two partners, but throughout history, even in biblical days, people have gone against God's law and pursued lustful desires. In a carnal world, integrity suffers. Women and men who have taken vows to spend their lives with a significant other violate the agreement by giving into lust of the flesh. This leads to children born outside the marriage relationship and often breaks up the union. This is what Satan desires, to break up relationships operating in God's spiritual law. He knows there's power in it, so he seeks to keep couples divided. There are so many single mothers in the world by design. Satan has conditioned the world to manifest these unfortunate circumstances. His goal is to keep fathers out of the home, so the child will face rejection and grow up to become delinquent. This makes it easier for Satan to recruit them into the kingdom of darkness and make them ambassadors for his kingdom. Satan effectively uses the tactic of "unequally yoked". This is a form of destiny diversion and can often lead to destiny abortion. Who you marry will determine the outcome for the rest of your life. This will also determine if you will complete God's assignment for your life successfully. For this reason, 2 Corinthians 6:14 discusses the importance of not being unequally yoked. Satan can lead you to the wrong partner to prevent you from fulfilling God's call successfully in your life. A lot of people don't follow God, so they're not aware that God even has an assignment for their lives. For this reason, they don't choose partners carefully for spiritual health but are chosen according to what satisfies one's flesh. This single tactic alone has aborted many God-ordained destinies.
Godly Laws On Marriage
According to Mathew 19: 4-6, God only ordained righteous relationships between one woman and one man. No one has the authority to separate God-sanctioned unions outside of God's word. If the reason doesn't align with God's word, the union cannot be broken. Disobedience to this law can lead to eternal damnation.
According to Malachi 2:14-16, God is a witness to every husband's actions performed in his marriage. If a man mistreats his wife, he will be subject to eternal damnation.
According to 1 Corinthians 7: 10-14, the wife cannot leave the husband. The husband cannot leave the wife. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Arguments in marriage will not hold up as an excuse for divorce in the courts of God. If the wife divorces her husband unlawfully, she must remain unmarried until her ex-husband is deceased. Please read 1 Corinthians 7:39. The courts of God still look at both parties as married due to the divorce violating God's laws. If the woman or man gets married to another person after an unlawful divorce, they would be living in fornication. Fornication is a term that refers to consensual sexual intercourse between two people who are not married to each other. If the wife is not a Christian, but she still wants to be with her husband, by Godly law the husband must keep his wife. If the husband is not a Christian, but he still wants to be with his wife, by Godly law the wife must stay with her husband. Being unequally yoked is not an excuse that will hold up in the courts of God for terms of divorce. Failure to obey these laws can cause both parties to be subject to eternal damnation.
According to Matthew 5:31-32, the only lawful divorce whom the courts of God will honor is for the reason of infidelity from either party. Please read Matthew 19:6-9. A man that divorces his wife unlawfully, causes her to commit adultery. Adultery is defined as voluntary sexual activity between a married person and someone other than their spouse. Any man who is unlawfully divorced and chooses to marry another person commits adultery as well. Please read Mark 10:2-12, Luke 16:18, and Romans 7:2-3. Failure to follow these Godly laws can result in eternal damnation.
According to Hebrews 10:26, preachers who condone and remarry unlawfully divorced people are doomed to hell if they don’t repent. Unlawful remarriage is a sin. It's their responsibility to know the laws of God, so they can prevent their flock from making decisions that can result in eternal damnation. An interesting fact is, that a lot of them are unlawfully married themselves. According to Luke 6:39, preachers who are blind to the truth can't lead people in correct decision-making when it comes to marriage. Such an unwise council will cause both teacher and student to be brought to hell.
According to Psalm 26:4 and 1 Corinthians 15:33, whenever family, friends, and especially Christians validate and take part in unlawful marriage/remarriage ceremonies(weddings), they’re placing themselves under condemnation. They must repent. By attending these events, you're placing yourself in agreement with those who choose to rebel against God's order of what is deemed a lawful marriage. In God's court, you're guilty by association.
According to Ephesians 5:33, the husband is commanded to love his wife. The wife is commanded to respect her husband. If both parties forsake this Godly law, both parties would be subject to eternal damnation if not repented of before death.
According to Jeremiah 3:1, if a man divorces his wife, then she marries another man, it would be a sin to engage with her again since she now belongs to another man. It doesn't matter the history. When a man decides to divorce, he should think wisely about his decision. He can't engage her in sexual activity since she no longer belongs to him, but legally another.
According to Malachi 2:16, the lord hates unlawful divorce. The lord is very displeased with husbands and wives who separate from their spouses for fleshly selfish reasons. God established marriage to last a lifetime. You don't get to say I'm divorcing a person because I'm not in love anymore. Your commitment to God should trump your emotional state of mind. This excuse wouldn't hold up in the courts of God. You made a contract deal in the presence of heaven and God expects for you to honor it. What if God reneged on his promises out of anger? Could you imagine the state humanity would be in right now?
According to Hebrews 13:4, all those who defile the marriage bed with Satanic practices, place themselves in jeopardy of hellfire. This includes sexual positions that belong to Satan. These sex positions include actions that mimic those of animals or oral sex. Please go read my article "Oral Sex Is Demonic". Inviting outside partners to participate in marital sexual activities, such as threesomes, foursomes, orgies, swinging, etc.
According to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, It's not a good look to divorce your wife and remarry her after she has been defiled in another marriage to a different man. In the old biblical days, God saw this as an abomination. Even though this is the Old Testament, this was still a God-ordained commandment to his people at that time. It's up to you to decide how you should choose to decipher this information. Though it is an Old Testament commandment, it still provides wisdom to these current times.
I hope this article has enlightened you on how to choose a God-ordained spouse and how a Godly marriage should be managed. Please share this article with others so they can become aware of the dangers of violating God's sanctity of marriage. Many spouses will be in hell for disobeying God's laws on marriage, don't let it be you.
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